The Club...

[CoppellCowboy57]

Okay, heres my intersting fun story about my best expriance on boot leave...

So Im sitting at home late at night just relaxing watching ESPN, and next thing I know im tied and blind folded in the back of a ford f150, flying down the streets of Coppell, think to my-self "Holy crap my drill instructors wernt lieing I should have maintained a low profile on bootleave". The truck stops and they get out and set me free. Low and Behold we are at a strip club in dallas (which we will not say the name of for protection of my-self and the girl in the story)...I was like great...I litrally get draged into the strip club...

First let me explain somthing to y'all...I am not a guy who likes strip clubs or anything about strip clubs, I dont like it when girls are running around naked for money, nor do I wanna have to pay for entertainment, i think its wrong, and I am 100% against it.

So im in the strip club sitting in the back of the club in a corner alone talking on my cell phone to a Marine back in Houston who was in my Platoon back at bootcamp. About thirty min into this I was like this sucks...Well a young very attractive (A girl that in normal surcumstances I would deffently hit on except she was half naked), walks up to me and said hey your friends bought you a lap dance. I Kindly said "Sorry, im not really intersted right now". Well she sat down next to me and the next thing we know we have a 2 hour convo about life why she was a Stripper (to try and help her son, turns out she works at a store at North Park Mall as well), and about Religion and about me being a Marine. At one point she asked me "Well dont you think its a sin to kill people" I looked at her remotly surprised and said "Well dont you think its a sin to strip." She replied well yeah good point...

As the night went on we exchanged numbers, thinking "Well she prob gives alot of guys her number im not evan going to bother".

Not even kidding 6 hours later I get a call, low and behold its my little stripper friend. Normal greeting and Stuff "Hey how are you?" blah blah...well about 3mins into are convo she asks "well hey I was wondering if your arnt busy tonight if we can go out after I get off work tonight" Taken back, I replied to her "Well only if a group of friends goes with us because honestly I dont know you or anything."

Later that day we hooked up and hung out ate at IHOP, as I was droping her off in her surpringly nice house for being a stripper, she invited me in, I kindly declined and went on my way...shes called me about 10 times the in past day...

My point is...she prob has aids and who knows who has touched her I mean sirously...any input?

(man I hope I dont get banned for this story)

It also surprised me that I was asked out by a 22 yr old chick...im freakin 18...child molester!

[BigArab]

Okay, heres my intersting fun story about my best expriance on boot leave...

So Im sitting at home late at night just relaxing watching ESPN, and next thing I know im tied and blind folded in the back of a ford f150, flying down the streets of Coppell, think to my-self "Holy crap my drill instructors wernt lieing I should have maintained a low profile on bootleave". The truck stops and they get out and set me free. Low and Behold we are at a strip club in dallas (which we will not say the name of for protection of my-self and the girl in the story)...I was like great...I litrally get draged into the strip club...

First let me explain somthing to y'all...I am not a guy who likes strip clubs or anything about strip clubs, I dont like it when girls are running around naked for money, nor do I wanna have to pay for entertainment, i think its wrong, and I am 100% against it.

So im in the strip club sitting in the back of the club in a corner alone talking on my cell phone to a Marine back in Houston who was in my Platoon back at bootcamp. About thirty min into this I was like this sucks...Well a young very attractive (A girl that in normal surcumstances I would deffently hit on except she was half naked), walks up to me and said hey your friends bought you a lap dance. I Kindly said "Sorry, im not really intersted right now". Well she sat down next to me and the next thing we know we have a 2 hour convo about life why she was a Stripper (to try and help her son, turns out she works at a store at North Park Mall as well), and about Religion and about me being a Marine. At one point she asked me "Well dont you think its a sin to kill people" I looked at her remotly surprised and said "Well dont you think its a sin to strip." She replied well yeah good point...

As the night went on we exchanged numbers, thinking "Well she prob gives alot of guys her number im not evan going to bother".

Not even kidding 6 hours later I get a call, low and behold its my little stripper friend. Normal greeting and Stuff "Hey how are you?" blah blah...well about 3mins into are convo she asks "well hey I was wondering if your arnt busy tonight if we can go out after I get off work tonight" Taken back, I replied to her "Well only if a group of friends goes with us because honestly I dont know you or anything."

Later that day we hooked up and hung out ate at IHOP, as I was droping her off in her surpringly nice house for being a stripper, she invited me in, I kindly declined and went on my way...shes called me about 10 times the in past day...

My point is...she prob has aids and who knows who has touched her I mean sirously...any input?

(man I hope I dont get banned for this story)

It also surprised me that I was asked out by a 22 yr old chick...im freakin 18...child molester!

Not only that, but a 22 year old with a kid. I donno man, she sounds like a nice girl and may have been taken aback by how much of a gentleman you are. Most guys who go into those place are not gentleman and their behavior shows it. She's probably just trying to look for some normalcy. I wouldn't shoot her down but definitely don't be forced into an ackward intimate situation. Just keep doing the hanging out thing and chatting on the phone. Thats all the advice I can offer.

[wide-e-wide]

Stripper + kid + young green Marine = $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and new baby daddy.......

Stay away from f'n strippers bro...don't even talk to 'em.
They all have the same story...ask any of the military guys on this board...
You can tell that story...and substitute any city in America in place of Dallas..........it's nothing new.

And God forbid one of them accidently suckers you into the sack!!!

Always remember...........Never trust a big butt and a smile........

AND..........Go to strip clubs to get drunk.....not to find a girlfriend.
And never.........ever..........ever.........give one of them your phone number...
Good Lord boy....didn't they teach you anything in San Diego...haha

I'm joking around CC57...........but at the same time I am dead serious...
Don't do it bro...speaking from experience...I've seen it happen too many times.

[Rerun]

She poppin she rollin she rollin
She climbin that pole and
Im N Luv with a stripper
She trippin she playin she playin
Im not goin nowhere girl im stayin
Im N Luv with a stripper

Out of all the girls she be the hottest
Like n the way she break it down i see u girl
Spinnin wide
And She lookin at me
Right in my eyes
Yea She got my attention
yea yea yea
Enough to get me to mention
I Need to get her over to my crib and do that night thang
Cause Im N Luv Wit a Stripper

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[dada]

Stripper + kid + young green Marine = $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and new baby daddy.......

Stay away from f'n strippers bro...don't even talk to 'em.
They all have the same story...ask any of the military guys on this board...
You can tell that story...and substitute any city in America in place of Dallas..........it's nothing new.

And God forbid one of them accidently suckers you into the sack!!!

Always remember...........Never trust a big butt and a smile........

AND..........Go to strip clubs to get drunk.....not to find a girlfriend.
And never.........ever..........ever.........give one of them your phone number...
Good Lord boy....didn't they teach you anything in San Diego...haha

I'm joking around CC57...........but at the same time I am dead serious...
Don't do it bro...speaking from experience...I've seen it happen too many times.
Listen to Dude......right now you have "BENEFITS" written all over your forehead. Young Marine to stripper equals money in the mailbox while he is away. EVERY stripper is either stripping to go to school or support their kids....you think shes gonna come out and say "I like stripping because I'm a skank and like to get paid" WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD BRO. We talked about this before. You are a marked man now so be careful. Guys liks Wide, Lonny and myself have been there and only speaking from expereience.

[LUFPAN]

Stripper + kid + young green Marine = $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and new baby daddy.......

Stay away from f'n strippers bro...don't even talk to 'em.
They all have the same story...ask any of the military guys on this board...
You can tell that story...and substitute any city in America in place of Dallas..........it's nothing new.

And God forbid one of them accidently suckers you into the sack!!!

Always remember...........Never trust a big butt and a smile........

AND..........Go to strip clubs to get drunk.....not to find a girlfriend.
And never.........ever..........ever.........give one of them your phone number...
Good Lord boy....didn't they teach you anything in San Diego...haha

I'm joking around CC57...........but at the same time I am dead serious...
Don't do it bro...speaking from experience...I've seen it happen too many times.

I'm with Wide on this one. Any of us veterans who did our time can tell you that girls like this are a dime a dozen. They see a steady check coming in each month and health insurance..not you. We used to call them Check Chicks or Check Hawks. Run, do not walk, away from this as fast as possible. Your DI should have filled you guys in on this before they let you off the island.

[Miss Kitty]

Okay I have a question for you military guys. If this is such a common scam and I don't doubt that it is, why would a group of your own put you in the position to get snagged like that? It sounds like it could potentially have bad results.

[dada]

Okay I have a question for you military guys. If this is such a common scam and I don't doubt that it is, why would a group of your own put you in the position to get snagged like that? It sounds like it could potentially have bad results.
I cant speak for Cowboy...but I know while I was away...my friends would brag about me and have all kinds of girls waiting for me....I mean if they can get me a girl....they can talk to her friends. It's benefits for the guys too. I know when I would come home with my Military Id...even though I was still underage...I could by alchohol....get into clubs...and they could go in with me...and if something happened to where the cops had to be called...I had my military id...and sometimes they let you walk.

[wide-e-wide]

Oh it's very common...
Strip clubs near military bases are the worst.

BTW...You can always tell when you are near a base.......You start to see liquor store...tattoo parlor...liquor store...strip club...pool hall...liquor store...tattoo parlor...bar....liquor store...
You know you are near a military base......either that...or you are in the hood....hahaha...only substitute "church" for "tattoo parlor".

There are strippers in these clubs...with like 8 different "boyfriends"...
And all of them strut their best stuff on the 1st and 15th....

[LoneRocket]

Okay I have a question for you military guys. If this is such a common scam and I don't doubt that it is, why would a group of your own put you in the position to get snagged like that? It sounds like it could potentially have bad results.
It is called youth and besides the military it could be a college student or a person with a good job. My friend's grandmother says it is almost impossible to turn a "garden tool" into a wife.

[wide-e-wide]

It is called youth and besides the military it could be a college student or a person with a good job. My friend's grandmother says it is almost impossible to turn a "garden tool" into a wife.


That is true...you can't make a H0 a housewife....many have tried and many have failed.

[BigArab]

I'm afraid I've told you wrong. Listen to these guys. I don't have too much experience with strip clubs.

[LoneRocket]

I'm afraid I've told you wrong. Listen to these guys. I don't have too much experience with strip clubs.
I seen to many friends burned and knocked off their life track, you have to ask yourself would he/she talk to you if you did not have a dollar to your name and how do they treat others who do not have a dollar to their name.

[LoneRocket]

Big-A what are you doing in SA now, last I checked you were in Longview.

[wide-e-wide]

I seen to many friends burned and knocked off their life track, you have to ask yourself would he/she talk to you if you did not have a dollar to your name and how do they treat others who do not have a dollar to their name.


Exactly.....

[RPM]

I dont know what to say..I want to agree with all the guys here because there right but at the same time I became friends with a stripper many moons ago with the same story..college and she had one kid...now she a supervisor for a big company..shes a legit nice, and beautiful women with 3 kids and a husband now..she still my friend and she always told me that she would just strip and not ho around but back then i was a lil playa myself and didnt believe just went with it..i wasnt sure if I should or shouldnt go for it at the time..anyways Id say stay away..but man when there right there infront of you its almost impossible to turn them away..like Chris Rock said we cant run that fast...LOL!

[LUFPAN]

Okay I have a question for you military guys. If this is such a common scam and I don't doubt that it is, why would a group of your own put you in the position to get snagged like that? It sounds like it could potentially have bad results.

Well first of all it was his civilian buddies who put him in this spot..not his military buddies. I doubt that they are aware that these types of women are sitting out there just waiting for a nice military pay-check. They were just being buds and trying to make sure he had some fun before reporting back. If he had gone into a strip bar with a bunch of his military buddies they would have lowered the boom on this relationship long before phone numbers were exchanged. He didn't know and neither did his buddies. But now he's heard it from a few old salts and will be more cautious in the future. You find your wife at Church or the grocery store not at a strip club.

[LoneRocket]

Well first of all it was his civilian buddies who put him in this spot..not his military buddies. I doubt that they are aware that these types of women are sitting out there just waiting for a nice military pay-check. They were just being buds and trying to make sure he had some fun before reporting back. If he had gone into a strip bar with a bunch of his military buddies they would have lowered the boom on this relationship long before phone numbers were exchanged. He didn't know and neither did his buddies. But now he's heard it from a few old salts and will be more cautious in the future. You find your wife at Church or the grocery store not at a strip club.
Or find her in College.

[wide-e-wide]

You find your wife at Church or the grocery store not at a strip club.
__________________

Amen to that brother.
You find future ex-wives in strip clubs.

[lonny23]

Listen to Dude......right now you have "BENEFITS" written all over your forehead. Young Marine to stripper equals money in the mailbox while he is away. EVERY stripper is either stripping to go to school or support their kids....you think shes gonna come out and say "I like stripping because I'm a skank and like to get paid" WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD BRO. We talked about this before. You are a marked man now so be careful. Guys liks Wide, Lonny and myself have been there and only speaking from expereience.
If it's not strippers, it's going to be somebody in a foreign port or just some local girl that wants to hook up with a military guy.

I'm not going to shoot ol' girl down because she might like you, but you have to be careful. Always ask yourself what she gets out of hooking up with you. If her life is about to get better, think twice about hooking up. You need to make sure she loves you and isn't just trying to get at your money. Some of these girls know all about the pay, the benefits, and the retirement.

I'm throwing it out here now. Many wives and some ex-husbands across the U.S. get part or all of their spouse's military retirement pay. You work 20 years to give up something you earned.

[lonny23]

Okay I have a question for you military guys. If this is such a common scam and I don't doubt that it is, why would a group of your own put you in the position to get snagged like that? It sounds like it could potentially have bad results.
Some people are just desperate for love. They put themselves in the position because they're getting a little attention. It's a cruel game that people play in and out of the military and male and female. Many people take less because they don't think they'll get better. They need to have more confidence in themselves.

Another thing is guys are weak for sex. They lose their mind if a girl gives them some.

[lonny23]

Oh it's very common...
Strip clubs near military bases are the worst.

BTW...You can always tell when you are near a base.......You start to see liquor store...tattoo parlor...liquor store...strip club...pool hall...liquor store...tattoo parlor...bar....liquor store...
You know you are near a military base......either that...or you are in the hood....hahaha...only substitute "church" for "tattoo parlor".

There are strippers in these clubs...with like 8 different "boyfriends"...
And all of them strut their best stuff on the 1st and 15th....
The training bases are the worst about tattoos. There are plenty of shady used car places near the bases, too. They prey on the young guys.

[lonny23]

Amen to that brother.
You find future ex-wives in strip clubs.
You find women in strip clubs that shouldn't come close to being wives to start with. Most of them will leave you for a dollar more.

[wide-e-wide]

The training bases are the worst about tattoos. There are plenty of shady used car places near the bases, too. They prey on the young guys.

Yeah..there was a huge suit filed against AutoNation out in Va Beach when I was there...
They were selling cars to Marines and Sailors at like 80% interest rate.....and guys were BUYING THE CARS!!!!

[lonny23]

Yeah..there was a huge suit filed against AutoNation out in Va Beach when I was there...
They were selling cars to Marines and Sailors at like 80% interest rate.....and guys were BUYING THE CARS!!!!
I hate the cheats, but I also know it's because of stupid people.

[Rerun]

I don't know man...

I currently have a crush on a stripper.

Sorry but I am enthralled by her.

[LoneRocket]

I don't know man...

I currently have a crush on a stripper.

Sorry but I am enthralled by her.
Crush on or Lust for?

[Rerun]

Crush on or Lust for?

I don't know yet. I met her a few weeks ago and I can not stop thinking about her.

[LoneRocket]

I don't know yet. I met her a few weeks ago and I can not stop thinking about her.
All I can say is take care of yourself and don't get burned (mentally and physically) and hold on to your wallet.

[Rerun]

All I can say is take care of yourself and don't get burned (mentally and physically) and hold on to your wallet.

Yea, normally I am not spending $100 on the girl the first night we meet...

[LoneRocket]

Yea, normally I am not spending $100 on the girl the first night we meet...
I saw on TV a few months back where this executive when to a strip club they got him so drunk he spend $20,000. That was an expensive lap dance, can you say paint my house and fix my car.

[Rerun]

Yea, that's pretty ridiculous.

I stopped after $100 was out of my wallet.

I had to leave and get my Las Palapas tacos and go home.

She was awesome though....

[LoneRocket]

Yea, that's pretty ridiculous.

I stopped after $100 was out of my wallet.

I had to leave and get my Las Palapas tacos and go home.

She was awesome though....
Never trust a big butt and a smile:)

[BigArab]

Hey Lone Rocket, I've been here a few years. I just originally put Longview because I was assuming that you write down who you root for.

Man, I changed that my second day on this forum.

[BigArab]

Speaking of San Antonio. What crazy wind tonight!

[Rerun]

Where is the party at tonight, guys?

[LoneRocket]

Speaking of San Antonio. What crazy wind tonight!
The temp is suppose to drop tonight and this weekend, I was freezing out on the track.

[Rerun]

The temp is suppose to drop tonight and this weekend, I was freezing out on the track.
I'm about to go out for my nightly stroll around my 'hood.

Should be fun. :)

[LoneRocket]

Where is the party at tonight, guys?
As I become older I tend to stay in when the temp drops, nothing on TV tonight, I guess I will watch SCI-FI I seen the law and order re-run.

[BigArab]

Yeah I was laced up and ready to go running but the second I stepped outside I was thinking "Pshh, forget this." I think I'll go pick up some Mama Margies for the family in a minute. My wife has been craving that constantly now. it's a stay at home night

[LoneRocket]

I'm about to go out for my nightly stroll around my 'hood.

Should be fun. :)
My doc has been getting on me about exercising more and leaving work on time, so I try at least four times a week. I just need to force myself to enjoy it maybe I need Coach Rackley or Gibbons as my personal motavator.

[BigArab]

Who is your doctor?

[LoneRocket]

I will send it to you.

[Rerun]

My doc has been getting on me about exercising more and leaving work on time, so I try at least four times a week. I just need to force myself to enjoy it maybe I need Coach Rackley or Gibbons as my personal motavator.


I enjoy them. They give me some time to think. Which is usually a good thing, although, sometimes it's bad.

I took a short stroll tonight, about a third of what I normally do, because it was cold and windy and made my nose run. :mad:

[slorch]

Okay I have a question for you military guys. If this is such a common scam and I don't doubt that it is, why would a group of your own put you in the position to get snagged like that? It sounds like it could potentially have bad results.


this was a group of his civilian buddies from Coppell, right?

[slorch]

I'm amazed at your self control.

as the other folks have said, get the hell away. You have $$$$$ signs all over you. You will see all tbe boneheads always hanging around the strip bars in Oceanside or court street in Jacksonville, NC. Your gut instict is telling you correctly- GET AWAY!

As Journey said- BE GOOD TO YOURSELF, Nobody else will!

you sound pretty smart, just stick to your gut. Don't let your little head make decisions for you...

[lonny23]

The temp is suppose to drop tonight and this weekend, I was freezing out on the track.
I'm wearing shorts and it got cold out there tonight.

[Rerun]

Guys,

Seriously.

The stripper I met is EVERYTHING I have wanted physically in a women. She says the right things and seems to be REAL. She seems like she is EXACTLY the women I have always wanted.

I really, really like her.

Damnit.

What a mess.

[wide-e-wide]

I'm amazed at your self control.

as the other folks have said, get the hell away. You have $$$$$ signs all over you. You will see all tbe boneheads always hanging around the strip bars in Oceanside or court street in Jacksonville, NC. Your gut instict is telling you correctly- GET AWAY!

As Journey said- BE GOOD TO YOURSELF, Nobody else will!

you sound pretty smart, just stick to your gut. Don't let your little head make decisions for you...


Hey CC57....another bit of info for you...

Never listen to advice from a guy that quotes Journey...Okay?

hahahahaha:D

[SeguinMatadors]

TH, good buddy.. I almost missed this... thtat is a tough situation you have there. What is her reasoning for being a stipper?? If there isn't good reasoning...color me skeptical..... because.... I find it hard to believe that she is a good honest woman at heart.

[Rerun]

TH, good buddy.. I almost missed this... thtat is a tough situation you have there. What is her reasoning for being a stipper?? If there isn't good reasoning...color me skeptical..... because.... I find it hard to believe that she is a good honest woman at heart.

Ohhh Seguin, my boy. It's just one of those things. I think it's a phase. I think.

I know where my heart is and at times I feel ashamed for even going to that sort of place. I feel that I have let the Lord down and can only pray for his forgiveness.

Sorry to get too deep but when all is said and done, I am fairly certain that I know where my heart is and I know who I am supossed to be with.

Time will tell for sure...

[SeguinMatadors]

Ohhh Seguin, my boy. It's just one of those things. I think it's a phase. I think.

I know where my heart is and at times I feel ashamed for even going to that sort of place. I feel that I have let the Lord down and can only pray for his forgiveness.

Sorry to get too deep but when all is said and done, I am fairly certain that I know where my heart is and I know who I am supossed to be with.

Time will tell for sure...

Indeed.... just don't waist too much time... is the one you are supposed to be with a cutie?

[Rerun]

Indeed.... just don't waist too much time... is the one you are supposed to be with a cutie?

Yes, sir.

She is the girl I have "liked" and if you ask me, I have loved her for the past 6 1/2 years.

[SeguinMatadors]

Yes, sir.

She is the girl I have "liked" and if you ask me, I have loved her for the past 6 1/2 years.

Wow, that is a grip of time... why haven't you worked it out with her?

[wide-e-wide]

Here is the deal.
Good girls don't take their clothes off for money...period...end of story...that's it!

Good girls need money....they wait tables...they work two jobs...they learn how to do hair...they babysit...they sell Mary Kay...anything................................but they do not get naked for money.

Just think about it.........let's say you fall in "love"...:rolleyes:
And you stay with this girl for a long time.....and you marry her.
Do you want to live the rest of your life knowing that your wife used to take money from strangers......while wearing no clothes...in a shady establishment...???

I know I wouldn't...

You already know how she is going to handle adversity...
She's gonna get naked and do whatever it takes to not be broke...

[Rerun]

Wow, that is a grip of time... why haven't you worked it out with her?

Man, you will laugh as most will, I am sure. But, the fact of the matter is that out of those 6 1/2 years, I went to school with her for 1 year(the first year), switched schools and lost contact with her(but never stopped having feelings for her), recently re-connected with her on nothing more than a friends type deal and have thought it thru and I am in love with her.

I am in love with everything about her.

The way she says things.

The way she walks.

The way she looks.

The way she thinks.

I am in love with her and I know, deep down inside, that we will be together.

[SeguinMatadors]

Here is the deal.
Good girls don't take their clothes off for money...period...end of story...that's it!

Good girls need money....they wait tables...they work two jobs...they learn how to do hair...they babysit...they sell Mary Kay...anything................................but they do not get naked for money.

Just think about it.........let's say you fall in "love"...:rolleyes:
And you stay with this girl for a long time.....and you marry her.
Do you want to live the rest of your life knowing that your wife used to take money from strangers......while wearing no clothes...in a shady establishment...???

I know I wouldn't...

You already know how she is going to handle adversity...
She's gonna get naked and do whatever it takes to not be broke...


Well said Wide. I was thinking the same thing.. but didn't want to just dick the whole idea... I am sure there are exceptions. It reminds me of that song...

"what would you do if your son was at home crying all alone on the bedroom floor because hes hungry and the only way to feed em is to sleep with a man for a little bit of money?"

Every time I hear that song I think to my self... do what my mom did and work a **** job to get by while keeping your dignity.

[SeguinMatadors]

Man, you will laugh as most will, I am sure. But, the fact of the matter is that out of those 6 1/2 years, I went to school with her for 1 year(the first year), switched schools and lost contact with her(but never stopped having feelings for her), recently re-connected with her on nothing more than a friends type deal and have thought it thru and I am in love with her.

I am in love with everything about her.

The way she says things.

The way she walks.

The way she looks.

The way she thinks.

I am in love with her and I know, deep down inside, that we will be together.

Well, you should let her know how you feel at some point... just don't come on to strong... go on a date with her or summin... start spending more time with her... just don't wait and let some other guy fill your shoes.

[Rerun]

Well, you should let her know how you feel at some point... just don't come on to strong... go on a date with her or summin... start spending more time with her... just don't wait and let some other guy fill your shoes.

All in time.

Feb 14 it starts....

[BigArab]

Yes, sir.

She is the girl I have "liked" and if you ask me, I have loved her for the past 6 1/2 years.

That is great. I fell in love with my wife a long time before she even knew who I was. I was just another goofy med nerd. It all comes with attempts at knocking her socks off every day with how good of a guy you are. Even if you come off as goofy, its still cute to her.

[mad_fan]

If it's not strippers, it's going to be somebody in a foreign port or just some local girl that wants to hook up with a military guy.

I'm not going to shoot ol' girl down because she might like you, but you have to be careful. Always ask yourself what she gets out of hooking up with you. If her life is about to get better, think twice about hooking up. You need to make sure she loves you and isn't just trying to get at your money. Some of these girls know all about the pay, the benefits, and the retirement.

I'm throwing it out here now. Many wives and some ex-husbands across the U.S. get part or all of their spouse's military retirement pay. You work 20 years to give up something you earned.


Kunsan AFB, South Korea was the worst. I'll bet you could catch something just talking to a young girl there...

[lonny23]

Here is the deal.
Good girls don't take their clothes off for money...period...end of story...that's it!

Good girls need money....they wait tables...they work two jobs...they learn how to do hair...they babysit...they sell Mary Kay...anything................................but they do not get naked for money.

Just think about it.........let's say you fall in "love"...:rolleyes:
And you stay with this girl for a long time.....and you marry her.
Do you want to live the rest of your life knowing that your wife used to take money from strangers......while wearing no clothes...in a shady establishment...???

I know I wouldn't...

You already know how she is going to handle adversity...
She's gonna get naked and do whatever it takes to not be broke...
Man, I agree with you 100%.

[lonny23]

Kunsan AFB, South Korea was the worst. I'll bet you could catch something just talking to a young girl there...
I don't condone the actions, but it was a funny story. One of our civilians at Randolph retired after 20 years. He was at Kunsan in the past. Their Master Sergeant supervisor had them go out the gate often with big boxes and act like they were going to deliver cargo to Osan. All they would do is put club girls in the boxes and come back on base and party with them all weekend instead of the normal system of getting passes and having them off base by 12 A.M. or 2 A.M. on weekends.

[dragonsdaddy]

Oh it's very common...
Strip clubs near military bases are the worst.

BTW...You can always tell when you are near a base.......You start to see liquor store...tattoo parlor...liquor store...strip club...pool hall...liquor store...tattoo parlor...bar....liquor store...
You know you are near a military base......either that...or you are in the hood....hahaha...only substitute "church" for "tattoo parlor".

There are strippers in these clubs...with like 8 different "boyfriends"...
And all of them strut their best stuff on the 1st and 15th....
you left out the pawn shops and we tote the note used car lots.

[LoneStarProud]

Like I said in a thread before you left for boot camp...If she's 6'2" and runs a 4.4 40yd.... you can overlook something as trivial as being a stripper..you gotta think about genetics.:D JK of course.