I got email from SHL

[Pinion]

The SHL I dated a few months ago. I've not spoke to her since November. We sent a couple of emails back in December. That's been it. I finally broke down last nite and sent her an email. Just wanted to see how her holidays have went and stuff. I didnt expect her to reply because of how the whole thing ended back in November.

I was shocked this morning to have an email in my in box. And she asked a lot of open ended questions because she knows I'll answer them. And I've noticed in every one of her emails today (9 of them) that she will end each one with some blatant open ended question or statement. Because she knows I cannot just leave those alone. I have to respond.

So now I'm all confused and screwed up about the situation. I've got a team working on an SHL here at work. There is another SHL I'm kind of working on. And now the first SHL is suddenly seeming to be ok with me again. WTF?
I cant man-hore with all 3. I mean, I could.. but morally, that's not correct. so I cant.
Ima have to see where all this goes.
And then, there's my luck. That's where all 3 string me a long for a little bit and then suddenly stop talking to me. lol.

[Slim-Rob]

i know how you feel pinion :/

[- sTp -]

Posting here in hope that it brings some luck :D

My humble suggestion would be to juggle.. Seriously. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, not yet anyway, until you figure out which one you want to keep.

Or, you could just keep juggling. But that might lead to:

1. You start dropping balls (girls) or,
2. All three balls run into each other and they figure out the game. :eek:

The last time I had more than one girl interested at the same time was, like.. junior high...

What kind of bait are you using anyhow?!?

[Pinion]

Posting here in hope that it brings some luck :D

My humble suggestion would be to juggle.. Seriously. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, not yet anyway, until you figure out which one you want to keep.

Or, you could just keep juggling. But that might lead to:

1. You start dropping balls (girls) or,
2. All three balls run into each other and they figure out the game. :eek:

The last time I had more than one girl interested at the same time was, like.. junior high...

What kind of bait are you using anyhow?!?


no, I'm that good of a player to have 3.. I havent been that big a pimp since high school.
I dated the one that I spend the day emailing for a few months and it was great. Really great. We were completely into each other. Things went fast, too fast. And it freaked her out a bit. And then I was having my own issues that I was trying to deal with. And she was having hers. And I ended up saying some stuff to run her off. Not that the stuff I said wasnt true. It was just a situation of we didnt need to talk about it because it didnt matter. And really never would. I said some open ended stuff knowing she would then want to discuss. Then I said what I had to say and she said she couldnt be with me or even be friends with me any longer knowing that that's how I feel about things. That was after she and I had stopped "dating". We were still kinda hanging out some. and stuff but not dating. But neither of us was seeing anyone else either. After that discussion business I pretty much set her up to run me off. Mostly selfish reasons. And it really gets complicated. And keep in mind that her daughter works with me. her daughter is the one that hooked us up. Then got mad (at me) when things were going great. I spent the nite there one nite and her daughter was home. We got a little bit loud and I'm pretty sure daughter heard us. pretty much from then on, daughter hasnt said anything to me unless it's been directly related to work. I'm crazy about this SHL. And I fully believe she's crazy about me. I honestly believe that it scares the living crap outta her that she's that much crazy for me. She's pretty much told me that on more than one occasion.
But I dont like back and forth and such. I need some kind of stability. I'm not needy, I just have to have stability where women are concerned.

Then there's the SHL here at work that I have the team working on. I dont know if she's married. I dont know if she's too old for me. I just know she's a spicy hawt latina. But no matter how hawt, there is an age where they just get too old and generation gaps can create problems on down the line. So my team (2 chicks and a gay guy) are going to find out if she's married and how old she is. If all that's good to go, then they're going to find out if she has any interest in me at all. If she does, then I'm on my own.

The 3rd SHL also works up here. She's young. I dont know how young because I havent asked. Because I dont care. She tells me that she thinks I'm too old for her, but she wont ask my age. And because I'm re-tarded, I'll play along and not tell her. I did tell her that I'm less than 40. So all this is going on and she says I'm prolly too old. But everytime I walk out to smoke, she's not going to be too far behind me. If she wasnt interested, she wouldnt come smoke with me. I thought maybe she was interested in the dood that sits over here with me. So I asked her point blank if she was interested in him. She says "no way. He's a player and stuff. If I wanted to be treated like crap, I'd have him or any of the other little boys I come across".

Really. If they all 3 showed up and said they wanted me. I'd take the first one. Prolly because we've spent a lot of time together and I know what to expect. The last one I would date but I would also know that it prolly wouldnt ever go anywhere in the longrun because she's just too young. I'm pretty sure she's less than 25.
The 2nd one. I just dont know. She's so hawt. But so are lots of women. That dont mean I could get along with them and have stuff in common.

If it were strictly up to me, I'd fix things between the first one and me. And that may happen. I just dont know. I think mostly it's just a fear thing for her. She's been single for a while. And suddenly there I am and she's just falling over drooling for me. And it shocked her. Hell, it shocked me. I still dont get it.

I dont know. I have a headache now from thinking about it all. And someone stole my whole damn bottle of advil off my desk. I think I'll go smoke. That wont help my head, but I'll have a hawt young Latina to look at. lol.

[okt0ber]

i know how you feel pinion :/

Bull.

[Pinion]

And then there's the cleaning chick up here. Good gawd. She has got to be the finest specimen I've ever seen in all my 35 years. EVER. She is so f'n hawt. But she speaks NO english. None. ZERO.

But we make eyes at each other all the time. Rather, I watch her work and drool all over myself. And she does her job and peaks at me now and then and smiles when I walk by and fall all over myself. lol.

damn language barrier.

[okt0ber]

And then there's the cleaning chick up here. Good gawd. She has got to be the finest specimen I've ever seen in all my 35 years. EVER. She is so f'n hawt. But she speaks NO english. None. ZERO.

But we make eyes at each other all the time. Rather, I watch her work and drool all over myself. And she does her job and peaks at me now and then and smiles when I walk by and fall all over myself. lol.

damn language barrier.

What do YOU look like?

[4th and 1]

And then there's the cleaning chick up here. Good gawd. She has got to be the finest specimen I've ever seen in all my 35 years. EVER. She is so f'n hawt. But she speaks NO english. None. ZERO.

But we make eyes at each other all the time. Rather, I watch her work and drool all over myself. And she does her job and peaks at me now and then and smiles when I walk by and fall all over myself. lol.

damn language barrier.

Think about it - that's the best kind........:D

[Pinion]

What do YOU look like?



A chunky redneck with a shaved head and long goatee. you rememeber stone cold steve austin? I look like a shorter out of shape him. with a long goatee. and earrings. and tattoos. I posted a photo of me in the users photos thread once. I dont know if it's still there or not. I'm not anything special. To me I look about average for a chunky redneck.